How to know the symptoms of an unfaithful Partner
* Receiving mysterious phone calls when he only answers in monosyllables
* Arranging to meet up with mates and being coy about telling you where he's going, then not being obtainable while he's out. He frequently leaves the house on the pretext of ‘doing something for work or with a friend’.
* Saying he's bought himself clothes (especially around his birthday or Christmas) or other items when he wouldn't normally.
* New underwear.
* Making more effort with his appearance.
* Visiting his mum more often, doing overtime, going to the gym.
* More miles on his car milometer than there should be.
* Emotional withdrawal. Your spouse doesn't speak to you about personal feelings. The communication between the two of you is very shallow.
* Your sex life changes. It might dwindle to nearly nothing, where all the excitement in the bedroom is gone, and you can't get your spouse interested.
* Money talks. There is financial tension in the home. He or she is monopolizing the bank accounts and keeping you in the dark.
* Your partner’s emotional pattern changes: He starts getting angry with you for no good reason.
How To Deal With A Cheating Partner
Sixty percent of men have love affairs outside wedlock, and eighty percent of men would like to.
The easiest way out for many wives is to deny or ignore their spouse's cheating. The best thing to do is to acknowledge what happened and accept it. Your spouse has cheated on you. It has happened and nothing is going to change the fact that it occurred.
The most important thing is to decide if you really need him or not? Decide if you still have reasons to stay.
If you decide to stay, making a wild scene and shouting, “Go away!” is the most common mistake. Yelling at your cheating spouse or humiliating him in public may seem like logical things to do, but it could do more damage than good at an already volatile situation.
Find out what triggered the affair and how your spouse feels about it all.
There is no excuse for infidelity. And if your relationship is going to heal, the first thing
you need to realize is that the affair is not your fault.
Talk with your cheating partner about how you plan to deal with the affair and lay out a list of demands. Talk until you reach agreement on how you will move forward. Set clear guidelines of what is expected in order to regain your trust. Be very clear about your expectations and that you will settle for nothing less.
Some people claim that once the infidelity is out in the open that it is the best thing that ever happened to their marriage. But before you take that route you need to learn how to deal with your own anger and frustration over the issue. Seek out someone that you can talk to, someone that is neutral to the situation and can give you advice. Surround yourself with family and friends. Get all the support you can.
Many say time can be a great healer; however, when left without a map, most people usually get lost and drift further apart. As much as time has the ability to heal, it can also have a negative impact. Letting your emotions run wild and doing the wrong things over and over can eventually disable you and kill your chances at surviving the affair.
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